Using latex condoms consistently and correctly during sexual intercourse is a safe way to protect against unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV.
Natural membrane (“skin”) condoms have pores that are sometimes large enough to allow HIV and other sexually transmitted viruses to get through. They do not give the same protection as latex condoms.
Latex condoms are rigorously tested to ensure that they meet federal and industry quality standards. When condoms fail, it is usually due to user error. User errors include not putting the condom on soon enough, not unrolling the condom completely, using an oil-based lubricant that weakens the condom and making mistakes in putting the condom on. And, of course, the biggest error is failing to use a condom at all. Using condoms in every sexual encounter is the greatest preventive measure individuals can take.
Condoms come in various sizes, thicknesses, contour shapes, lubrications, flexibilities and textures. Polyurethane condoms work as well as latex and are a good alternative for people who are sensitive or allergic to latex. The best way to decide which condoms are best for your particular situation is to try a variety of products.
Do not use any condom in a damaged package or condoms that show obvious signs of age deterioration (seem brittle, sticky, or discolored). Do not use any condom after the expiration date. And only use a condom once.
Your partner may or may not be enthusiastic about your decision to use condoms. Many people who are now happy, regular condom users have overcome the same objections you may hear voiced by your partner. Listen to what your partner is telling you and try to resolve the concerns comfortably. In general, physical problems have physical solutions; objections which are grounded in feelings, emotions, and past experiences are best resolved by honest communication. A partner who doesn’t want to try condoms needs to hear from you why using condoms is so important for both of you. Don’t give up. If your partner refuses to wear a condom after you have discussed your reasons, it may signal other problems in the relationship that bear review.
DO communicate with your partner about your desire to use condoms before you start having sex. Thinking up new ways to incorporate condoms into your sex life can be fun and sexy. Talking about condoms is helpful and becomes easier with practice. Be honest about your feelings. If you are nervous, embarrassed or inexperienced, say so. This gives you room to experiment and helps the other person to be honest, too.